Originally Posted By: garry1969
I know,I dont want to say anything and then we are back to square one,
So Do I wait till she moves back or announces to me she will move back


The latter. Then calmly say "That's good -- I'm glad. However, you need to understand that I need to protect myself, and there are some things I will need in order to feel like I can trust you again."

And then tell her what they are.