I'm not sure what to make of your last few post although I do now feel a lot more sympathetic towards your case.
So W tells you to pick up on your oral and bodily hygene (not nice to have to be told but a good sign) The two of you start to feel comfortable around each other and then W wants intermacy. You feel pressured and can't perform, W want unprotected sex, you feel even less likly to perform,W want some form of satifaction, you are unable to oblige. She feel frustrated, you get angry, you and tell her the two of you should D. She gets angrier and critisizes you and makes you feel failure, you retreat to the spare room.
Is that the jist of the last couple of days.
Well I think there are a few issues to be resolved before you two can move forward. I think at the heart of it CL you may need to seek professional to help you with the intermacy issues. Do you think you could discuss these things with a doctor ? (or am I way off the mark).
Also how do you discuss with W that you are unsure of her... er hygene (I couldn't think of a better way to describe it). I'll leave that one for now.
No, I think the performace issues are at the hear of W's frustration, thats the thing that needs to be delt with first, what do you think.
