Life in the Rough - A Liar's Game?

[Silent Chrleader]

Hi, {{Hope}}.

I so understand what you are going through because I am in the exact same position right now. I have been with my H since I was 17 and we were each other's "first, last & only". I am a hopeless romantic to the core, and even am guilty of an addiction to those "bodice ripper" romance books since I was a teenager. I honestly don't know if I can ever get past the thought of him being with OW. The pain is beyond anything I've ever felt!


But, I envy you that your H has commited to really working on your M and making it right, and will hug you and show you affection. My H is in C with me and is working to "do the right thing", but it seems to be mostly due to guilt and he still says he doesn't want to be married. He is still so "tight" and afraid of any "pressure" at all, or how I will take it that he won't even hold my hand. And I so need and miss that!

So, hang in there!! I think your M is gonna survive this!! You seem to have all the ingredients for success.....