I can tell you what happen to me about the Living in Fantasy land and all that Fog it wasnt till i told everyone about the affair Family at least. My wife was a person I didnt recognize at all. I mean this. At first I was embarrassed what was happenening to me then I was like well its life it happens I dont care what people think and anyone this has happened to will understand you and the emotions you go through. I used to be one of them when I seen someon cry over their significant other. You should continue with your life and go Dark on him he will realize what he is doing dont know when but he will and if you can hang on and take care of you he will notice and hopefully realize what he misses at home. Think about the thinks that made him happy at the beginning of the marriage and try those thins,maybe its certain clothes he liked on you or whatever,but change things about you that make you feel good and he will notice any small change on you. My wife did all I did one day bought some new shoes that she used to talk about long time ago would like me to wear but I told her not really me. Well i got some and she was like i se you must feel good you finally get some nice shoes i see you moving on . i smiled and just said no i am just going to the moivies. She knows I dont go bymyslef,well I did but she text me all night that day. Just because she thought I wasnt alone. I hope this helps I am not the best at this but try to put my thoughts into this,since I sometimes make mistakes and blow up too and its not easy,we can give each other advice all day its we have to follow our own advice
