the rope is fraying now #10

[blindsided1]

BG - don't take on the guilt...it will do you no good. I have been watching how strong you have been during this. I understand about backsliding, but CATCH YOURSELF or you will only go deeper. Your H needs to take this matter to court - NOW. Why is he even allowing OW to dictate when and/if he gets to see his son. If he chooses NOT to take legal action - that is NOT your fault - don't take on his fight. Don't TELL him what he needs to do....YOU stand there with love in you heart and support his decisions. You SHOW him that you are with him... let him handle his crap. This is his fight, not yours. You have nothing to feel guilty for and you owe OW ABSOLUTELY NOT A THING.