omg lmao!!!!!!!! hope i needed that!! i can see it, with her head, it looks sooooooooooooooooo cool lol!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Thanks guys. I try to use this image every time I imagine them in the Hotel room. I picture someday, she and I finally crossing paths in the pub were we all used to hang out together. I see myself going up to her and slapping her face really hard, and then throwing my glass of red wine in her face. STOP....don't want to waste the wine on the Skank, so I instead picture her head spinning around. evil smile hehehe.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
Around and Around it goes, where she stops nobody knows. Too good Hope! OK..... NO snow just ice and sleet, yuck!!! I am glad I have remote start, everyone is going out to start their cars, at least there isn't so much the doors are frozen shut.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
ak guys remembering what snow is like now. Still want it though. Hey I was a week and a half late on the tree this year. Usually done day after thanksgiving.
Nope Hope, no housekeeper for me. Just stresses me out. And they never do it right. Or at least not my way. I'm a little nuts. Now that my house is back in order, I plan on keeping it that way. Done with my funk. At least long term.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
The drive home wasn't too bad....the first 15 miles not too fast! LOL the last 15 was just wet roads!
H was here when I got home, had come here after his hair cut and took a shower and changed to go to taco tuesday.Called me to see where I was at, I was almost home when he called. We didn't talk too much. He did say something about BS being spread at work again. Wouldn't tell me what it was, I said anything like my car being at Wal Mart at 3:00 in the morning. H said I told him you go to Wal Mart early, I said not that early. H wouldn't tell me what was being said. Said it was just BS. When he first started his A there were rumors he was seeing a bunch of different women.
So it is time for the elves to do the tree and I need to bake 2 pies for work tomorrow. There is a meeting that wants pie for dessert, so I get to do that! Stay warm! Have a wonderful night yall.
Ok MT-it's time. He needs to not come to the house unannounced. I know it is his house too but HE made the decision to leave. He chose to have this A and he chose to walk out the door after stringing you along for months now. It is time for consequences and boundaries. If you want to go to Walmart at 3am, you are a grown woman, 35 years old I think, and that is your choice and not really his concern no matter who tells him what. He is more concerned with what other people seem to think than what his wife is experiencing and thinking and I'm sorry but I am really a little ticked off at your H. No more cake eating allowed MT. It's time.
Ok check back in the am and I might not be so upset with him but this has been brewing since this am. Love you and you are strong. Strong. Strong.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
Kel, you might not be so upset with him, but I am. I agree with everything that you said above. MT, he is walking all over you and you are letting him do it. This is not helping anything. It is pretty clear that right now he has no respect for himself, and little more for you. You are going to have to be strong enough for the both of you. Get your locks changed. He needs to make an appointment with you to be in the house. Yes, it is still maritial property, but he made the decision to leave.
Think about it this way...why would he consider changing anything right now when he has the best of both worlds? As long as he is so sure of you he will never do anything that is remotely uncomfortable for him. You are going to have to be strong enough for the both of you.
Also, he will never worry about losing you if he knows he can breeze into your life whenever he has the need.
I'm sorry MT. This whole thing just sucks, and will probably be more painful before it gets better. I truly believe though, that it will get better.
Love you.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
I know guys, I have been thinking about stuff, and I need to be stronger, this time of year makes even harder for me. Saturday we help my mom and dad at a craft show, and next Friday SD graduates. I know I am making excuses, I know excuses are like a$$holes, everyone has them!
I know he isn't changing anything because it is all to easy for him to come and go. This is very hard for me at the moment, and I need to buck up with my big girl panties. My friend Tiff has told me the same things too. I am trying to get to that place, sorry it isn't as fast as it needs to be right now.
