Nas, if it bothers you that much; maybe you shouldn't be there when he comes to get his stuff. Not a bad idea.
You can rear your ugly head here anytime; that's what we're hear for.
Keep in mind that D is not necessarily a forgone conclusion right not; his moving out may be so try to focus one day at a time. right now you're not D and he hasn't filed yet has he?
I commend you for your strength to fast...it's not easy.