would I want to take k's to hawaii by myself and she would then have them meet her at the vac property after?
I would just tell her that Hawaii is off the table and if chooses to take the k's to the vacation property it will be solely on her dime and only if there is some sort of agreement in place prior to...ie: no OM there, length of stay, etc...
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
- I was really ignorant for not telling her S13 received hockey tryout invite. (I did call her on this, saying that an A is ignorant to me and family - her response was that it wasn't really an A because you have to be a R with someone to have an A and she isn't so I should just get over it.)
So it wasn't a R with OM, it was indiscriminite sex with a stanger? Oh, thats SO MUCH BETTER!
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
She said I should stop thinking of myself and think of k's. I can't communicate - how do I ever think I will get in another R?
How is this her concern? Shes worried about your getting into another R? Now I know shes on the pipe.
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
She needs to know about hawaii soon because people need to know. I asked who and she said people. So I asked who again and she said I do and that is all that counts. I said I will give it some thought to which she said I don't have time to do that to which I said I will take the time to think about it.
Hawaii trip? Asked and answered. Lets move on. Apparently you need to speak slowly and use smaller words, try: We...Will...Not...Be...Going...To...Hawaii!
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
She then said sex life started going downhill 6 years ago and she was worried then but nothing done and no communication about it so that is why getting D now.
Is she a mime? A deaf/mute perhaps? Getting involved with OM doesn't really count as an effective "communication" technique...but hey, what do I know.
Sorry, but your W frustrates me sooooo much sometimes...like everytime she opens her mouth.
You are a good man and are doing so well, I really admire your self restraint!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option