If your H cannot man up, remove his testicles from her pocket, and get a court order to protect his rights, this is going to be an ongoing problem. Oh, and your MIL has rights, too, and the courts are looking very favorably on grandparents' rights. The troll does not a have leg to stand on to keep you away from that baby, and she is going to discourage any and all legal actions as long as possible, because i guarantee she knows that once it gets that far, she no longer controls the show.
YOU are not the guilty party here--YOU are the wronged party. The more guilt you take on yourself, the more they will pile on. Do you want to be a victim or a success story? Time to put on your big girl panties and start exploring the legal options available that will allow you to see your stepson, your MIL to see her grandson, and H to spend more time with his son, out from under the slut's thumb.
I love you and I am not afraid to start swinging when I think the pity party has gone on long enough. You are not a quitter and I WILL NOT tolerate that talk any longer.
Now that I am done yelling at you, {{{{{HUGS}}}}
Take action instead of planning your reaction.
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7