- would I want to take k's to hawaii by myself and she would then have them meet her at the vac property after?
I thought that the trip to Hawaii was cancelled. I recall the issue being saving money because she wants a D. That doesn't seem to have changed any.
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
(I did call her on this, saying that an A is ignorant to me and family - her response was that it wasn't really an A because you have to be a R with someone to have an A and she isn't so I should just get over it.)
Sexual encounters outside of ones marriage constitute an affair.
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
She needs to know about hawaii soon because people need to know. I asked who and she said people. So I asked who again and she said I do and that is all that counts. I said I will give it some thought to which she said I don't have time to do that to which I said I will take the time to think about it.
I don't get this. I thought this decision had already been made. Did you communicate that clearly to your W? Being indecisive in a case like this is a passive-agressive way of asserting control. If your position is that a family trip to Hawaii would be irresponsible given the current uncertainty, then cancell the plans yourself, tell W & kids why and then deal with the fallout.
