By all means you can suggest that your W does some reading, but at this moment in time I don't think it is about her, I think it is about you and your issues (and I use issues in the politest sense).
I think you need to get back to basic DB principles and work on you. What could you do to make you a happy person, what could you do to make yourself an attractive prospect. What could you do to make yourself someone W wants to hang with.
Could you loose the anger, hurt, bitterness, and frustration you are feeling. Could you respond to W with kindness when she is obviously being mean to you. Could you respond to her without sarcasm, when she's being nice for her own gain. Can you accept her current situation and remain friendly. These are you issues and the things you need to deal with.
John210 has just past the stage that you are in so listen to him he talks from experience and with sense. My view is you can't make W read something and then she suddenly wises up on the mistakes she has made, but you can improve you and hope it turns her head in your direction, read the latest on Kerry K and see how things can turn.
As cr@p as it sounds you have to be the one to make the first move and do all of the work. Other wise you will be permanently in the situation you are in now and the mistake your W thinks she has made now won't seem like a mistake at all.
Come on T, turn the tide and make that move.
Lanzo
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I'm have really been thinking all night. What does "rough around the edges" mean?
You tell it as it is a don't sugar coat things for W
