X and I needed to talk about kids last night(I have them this week). I tried several times to get her with no answer. As it was late I texted her a lot of info and gave up, then went on to bed.
This Am I dropped off more info at X's. X called a little later and went ballistic. Accused me of being passive-agressive in my communications with her, drug up a couple of baggage issues she has concerning parenting, (guilt for not being available concerning her children?) She hung up on me twice.
I wasn't expecting this reaction from her. Looking back she thought I was angry and that colored her interpretation of my text to her. I believe she was upset by some of the issues themselves, maybe some guilt and took it out on me.
I texted her a long text explaining why I had done what I had (to avoid misunderstandings), told her I was frustrated when I texted her last night but wasn't angry and meant for the info to help, not hurt. I ended my text with, "I'm still in love with you damnit, even now" (the phone argument was pretty bad.
She called me back a little later, totally calm. Said she didn't know what to say about what I had texted her (still in love). I told her she didn't have to say anything.
She wants me to call her as soon as I get off work.
Having no expectations.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
