So what. It's still the right type of response. If she has a problem with it, that is HER problem, not yours.
Very good point, and it bears repeating for all of us. There is this sense on here that we have to look at all these "faults" that the WAS pointed out and work to fix every one, like a honey do list. It's co-dependent. Just because some word or action of ours doesn't sit well with our spouse (especially during/after the bomb)doesn't mean that it needs corrected....just like some things are spouses do don't require action on their part. We need to ask ourselves if the problem is really ours...if not, then the spouse should be left to deal with it.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
