Ahhhh, I got kin in that body!

[AliSuddenly]

Hey T...
IMHO there is NO WAY yuo can talk to this guy like .. "B, I miss your manly angelwing shoulderblades? how your eyes get bluer when you're happy? I miss seeing your smile in person? I miss your lip freckle?" ..you havent had THE conversation yet, or any conversation.

You are not in that space..as Jody DB coach would say, think ahout what stage you are in.. are you still in stage 1 - reducing negativity and guilt? (I think you are), or are you in stage 2 - friendship? (I'd say not yet), or stage 3 - romancing !? It just feels to me that it would be too wierd and innappropiate to *suddenly* tell him you miss his sexy eyes/batwing shoulders (WTF!? Lol). Maybe if you meet him and you are getting on well, you could slip him a compliment and fondle his knee..? But I dont think you can by email. Also anything with "I miss..." is pretty loaded, but maybe I miss chatting with you is fair enough. Not sure over email though, kind of risky??

Plus, you dont really know if he is seeing anyone or not? (maybe not?)

Defo email him the info for his brother, its the perfect excuse, but keep it light and funny? Also, defo text him before his flight.. but can you keep this light too? Instead of "have a good flight", can you think of something witty to say that relates to his anecdotes about that nightmarish flight as he has laughed with you twice about that? Something like..have a good flight, I hope your eyeballs have been in training and dont let you down this time?? Or something suitably witty about his eyeballs *insert eyeball joke*!?

And then send him this funny picture called blind eyeballs hahahha

And seeing as you are the DB queen and are currently reeling your B in like a prize trout.. can you suggest how I can reconnect to my ex!??? (I was in stage 1 nicely, even stage 2 for a while there, and blew it. Go back to the beginning, do not pass Go or collect £200). He is back feeling guilt ridden, like he just upsets me now whenever he sees me/speaks to me)
Al x