Well, W called me at work. Caught me totally off guard. Main points:
- do I want to do mediation or does she need to go back to her L?
- would I want to take k's to hawaii by myself and she would then have them meet her at the vac property after?
- I was really ignorant for not telling her S13 received hockey tryout invite. (I did call her on this, saying that an A is ignorant to me and family - her response was that it wasn't really an A because you have to be a R with someone to have an A and she isn't so I should just get over it.)
She said I should stop thinking of myself and think of k's. I can't communicate - how do I ever think I will get in another R?
She needs to know about hawaii soon because people need to know. I asked who and she said people. So I asked who again and she said I do and that is all that counts. I said I will give it some thought to which she said I don't have time to do that to which I said I will take the time to think about it.
She then said sex life started going downhill 6 years ago and she was worried then but nothing done and no communication about it so that is why getting D now.
Well, talk about throwing your day for a loop.
Thoughts?
LIS
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