Vent away when you need to HERE ( I've screwed taht up enough times on my own).
And you're welcome. Sorry I can't provide much postivity. My stance now is as said, I let go, no sense in fighting for what doesn't want to be fought for. BUT, it's not over til the dotted line is signed, and even there after you never know. I do know from time to time in STBX's voice and ALWAYS in her eyes, she know what she's throwing away. And as they say, one person's trash is another person's treasure.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11