WAW - Possible MLC I need help, WAWs advice III

[dday101798]

All of what you said is exactly what I said in my thread. Minus one thing. All though it is hard to do, you have to accept the fact of what she's doing and who she's with.

If she, much like my STBX (not even going to bother with W anymore), if hse wants to be the party girl all the time, let her. If a party girl is what OM wants to contend with all the time, LET HIM. Do you wnat to deal with it? I think not.

I will tell you from my sitch, her OM isn't to pleased half the time with her anticts. She's already lost one job, teatering on losing her main job, and yet they supposed to be buying a house together? Even though I know their time is limited at best, she wants him, fine I accept it. That's what you need to do, it's even one of the steps remember.

Of course you're pissed, who wouldn't be. And I was made that same offer, "let's be friends". Guess what happened when I accepted? I was told we couldn't be friends, ever again. So, think about it a bit. You find the answer deep down in you that you need to accept her choice for now.

As you were told, I ahve been many times, it is what it is.