Hey Kelaroon.. thats very interesting. And thank you, I was wondering if I should email him, casually. I guess he worries so much about upsetting me, he may think its best to leave me alone.
Yes, thats what the therapist said.. he is punishing himself. Its like self-harm. Although having said all of this, I can only assume he is happy and going forwards with her. Sure I'd love them to split up and whilst I dont thikn at all she is "the one", I also think they could be together for a long while.
.. as far as I know, he wasnt abused, but things did happen around 12-13 which that didnt seem THAT bad to me, but I could see how they would have a catastrophic effect. He later retracted alot of it though. He also barely talked to me about his Mums 6 year A, his parents loveless M or D, although I did ask of course.
So.. perhaps I should email him tommrow to say hi. There was something in the stars 7/8 weeks ago about Pisceas having until Christmas to go for the one you want, else it will be too late. Feels too late, sadly.
