For the Guy with Kids and a WW Twenty One

[hopeful4her]

She had grilled beef fajitas for dinner that night.

No contact with the wife yesterday until 5pm. She called my cell phone from her work phone. I didn't answer it and she left no VM. Then she called my office phone, so I figured I should answer it. Turns out, she had a client that had investment questions and her people were out of the office. I answered some basic questions for her, she thanked me and we hung up. I left soon after and then she called from the office again.

She asked if I had left already and that she still had a client at her office. Would I mind picking up D7 from daycare. I told her that was fine and she asked me again, if I minded. I told her again that it was fine and she tells me that she'll see me at the apartment.

She calls back 20 minutes later from her cell phone. Again I answered and she says that she is leaving already and if I had picked up D7 yet. I tell her that I'm about 10 minutes away and I ask her if she has left yet or not. She says that she is logging off her computer right now. She said a couple things that I couldn't make out and told her that I'll just see her at her place. I picked up D7, who was surprised to see me. I get to the apartment and D11 is working on a poster board project and I start D7 on HER homework. S14 was in his room on the phone. The wife gets there about 15 minutes later. She says her hello's to the kids and gets settled in. She starts to ask if the kids want spaghetti and meatballs. I just smile because D11 says that they just had the same on Saturday.

"Well, it wasn't MY spaghetti and meatballs" as I caught her give a quick glance at me.

They decided on something else. As I helping D7 at the dining table, her cell rings. She answers it and starts talking,

"Hello? Hey you.....Yeah......I'mmmmmmmm getting dinner started. Yeah?........Thats what I thought......

While she is on the phone, I quickly tell D7 goodbye, go over to S14 and tell him goodbye and then D11. I look over to the wife in the kitchen and she is no longer on the phone, looking at me. I give a quick hand motion and she tells me thank you. I say nothing to her and just walk out the door.

Of course, her phone call upset me. I was fine by the time I got home.

She sure makes it hard to continue on, but I do. Also, I have seen her every morning on my way to work for the past 3 working days. Today makes the 4th. Not sure if she saw me today, but I'm pretty sure she did as I passed her. It looked as if she was driving to the grocery store and missed the turn and had to turn around a bit farther down.

If she calls me early, I won't answer her call. She would typically call me when she leaves, but hasn't called me yet. It being now 10:30am and it takes about 3 hours to get there, she should have left by now.

And I ain't gonna call her, thats for sure.

Her taking the call was just F'ing rude. Just really shows me where SHE is, so I know where I should be. Pulled back and just waiting for the next attack.

It may be a while, though.