...the other issue is her telling everyone she wants to be friends with me. She cast that stone across the pond. Again, as long as she is with OM, she does not exist in my life, at any level.
I think that you might find you have to change your position on that.
How else will she see that your changes are permanent and experience God's amazing grace?
It's going to be you that HE works through you know....
Just worry about letting Him deal with YOU for now.
There's no sense putting the cart before the horse
