I will ask her to let me have her January schedule before she goes to work Thursday, and I'll ask her if she prefers a man or woman MC. She hasn't said anything more, and hasn't done anything more that would give a clue that she is planning on changing anything. It's not surprising, of there is going to be change, it will have to come from me.
I read some more of the "N.U.T.s" book, and I can see that I had started (maybe with C's help?) started down that road, to a degree. From what I can see, it has made no difference to W (monitoring results), but I think it has been good for me. And that's the person that I can change. So that's good.
Here's what's been bugging me..... W is a very pragmatic person. I'm afraid that she will do what she thinks she has to to keep the marriage going for now, without really meaning it. I know, don't assume, don't try to read her mind, etc.... It will be an interesting topic in MC, if we get that far. Oh, well, no use borrowing trouble.
