Hi PM,
Are you putting your Plan A together yet? Check out Trying2Live stich, she put on a brilliant Plan A and has now gone to Plan B and has been into it for at least a few weeks. It is tough with the Plan B but she is sticking to it. She might be able to give you some good tips.

Take care and keep in touch

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09