I am so sorry to hear about your D proceedings. I will check on your thread to see the latest news and why you made this decision at this time. Not for me to judge but I am just wondering why now.
I would highly, highly recommend DB coaching if you want to save your marriage. But I'm confused, if you want to save your M, why did you proceed with D?
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09