nc.. I think you are right about him becoming detached. He actually showed me some stuff on the internet about it, and I told him (not to get to graphic) that I was totally happy the way things were in that arena and that I love him the way he is.
He thinks that increasing his manhood would make me want him more... WRONG!! I told him that if he was more attentive and there for me emotionally that , THAT would make me more interested, not the latter.
We were intimate last night, even though I was still upset with the day before. When He walked in the door and I just hugged him and said that I loved him, and he said it back, that was it.
I do think he is incredibly insecure, and is wanting my full attention.
As for the boys, they love there daddy. I always tell them how hard he works for us, so we can go to disney and have nice things and so mommy can stay home with them. They rough house and play, he does love them a lot, but I do think he feels like hes missing out because he works so much.
Anyways, things a little better, I have a busy day today. thanks for your care.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
