It is just business

[AliSuddenly]

Hey.. well done!!! You certainly handled this first meeting, after finding out about OW, better than I did!!! Well, having said that, after my first meeting, it was my ex that got emotional first, not me, but then he was drunk!

I'm sorry he sounds quite low.. I agree sounds like his crohns has either already come back (hence the decision to stop drinking) or showing signs of coming back. Interesting one that his gf is still drinking alot and teasing SIL for being 'boring'.

Sounds like you behaved just how you wanted to behave, you did a really good job of sticking to your plan and acting as if and being fun and confident. Seems like he was a bit 'hang dog'. I like that he offered to speed up the email communication. Also, well done on discussing the finance options and its a relief he didnt fight you over it at all. So how did you leave it?

Well done! How you feeling about seeing him today?

Al x