Hi glam, na & peace- Yes, sometimes there does seem to be a cycle . Yes, I probably try to start R talks when I shouldn't. I just get so tired of this. My H doesn't want to step up to the M nor is he willing to let me go...at times this can be torture. Last week I was feeling like we have a small window of time to really make some progress because my H's crazy trial schedule will now start in Jan. For now, I need to let things go...I need a refill on patience and not sure where to get that.
My H came over on Sat. and Sun. No R talk. Things seemed really good between us as long as there is no pressure. My H and I have C on Weds...I guess I need to leave the R talk for then. I want resolution...I am just not sure I am ever going to get it until my H does some serious work on himself.
