Hi AZ, I do agree with MB that reconcillation can't happen unless A has ended. I know DB feels that you should just ignore the OP and they will fade away so I think the difference is MB thinks a time limit should be set at some point while DB you will definitely need more patience and it could take years if you are willing to wait. I have been exposing the A to family and some friends and so far it still has not come unglued. It is a frustrating process.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
