My H has been very loving lately and been coming around much more instead of going to the bars. He still has his nights, but overall he has been much better.
I definetly ratteled him the other night when I blew up about his drinking. He said I hurt him and he cant change who he is.
Since then he has changed and been more concsious about his whereabouts and keeping me informed so I can make plans. But for the most part he has just been hanging around with me a lot more than the past few weeks.
I am going to still try and start the internet alanon meetings to get some extra support. I looked up the websites today. I have a feeling it might help a lot.
I am glad that I spoke my mind instead of holding it all in. I may have came off harsh - according to him, but now he has made efforts to cut down on the bars and let me know more often what he is up to.
I hope it continues and that he isnt holding resentment. I think he was holding resentment up until the other night when he vented back to me about the whole spat. I let him know I love him and that I was just trying to let him know how I feel when he is out drinking so much. I said I cant stand for it and M needs to be a 2 way street and not all about our own freedoms.
