Just plugging along! My W keeps asking me about whether or not I got financing to buy her out! I got it but I feel wierd because I feel like I am helping the process out at least if she does change she knows were to find me. even though she is supposed to be moving out she says she hasn't found a house yet and might take three months.
I don't know if that is good or bad. Last night I came home and she was watching TV with her sister and sisters husband. It was a bit strange because my W was acting like nothing was wrong. I still get along with her sister and sat for awhile chatting, my W was tired and later went to bed.
Tonight she was home when I got home and she said "if I had known that you would be home now I would of made you some pasta" I was cleaning up and made myself some tea. She said she had a headache and was going to take a bath. I ask her if she wanted some she said Yes. I brought it up to her in the bath. She made me close my eyes but said it was sweet. I am trying to be dark but it seemed like the thing to do at the time. I then went to the gym and when I got back she was in bed but heard me and called out saying" how was the gym?" I said fine, then took the dog for a walk. Don't know what to make of it on one hand she is talking about splitting up stuff and asking when she will get her buy out for the house but then she is nice to me? She has said in the past that she likes me and that I am a good man but she just doesn't want to be married.
confused, Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
