Good for you MC, "Tired of being tied to her whims"
I know what you mean, we are the responsible ones, we are the ones who think of family first, we will put aside things we want to do to take care of the kids or stuff around the house, but every now and then, its our turn. Not all the time, just every now and then. Our W's on the other hand are thinking of number one and its not us or the kids.
I see so much of my situation in yours, how did we get into this mess. Only good thing we got out of this are the kids.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08