I have only posted twice on the forums, but have spent the last few weeks reading your "story." I'm so inspired by your efforts, faith, and growth. I have silently encouraged you along the way, even though I was reading what happened months ago... I know you're standing strong for your marriage and family. I really admire your faith that God is working on your H right now. I just wish it wouldn't take so long!
I'm at the point where I've had great success in gaining back my "friend." I love my friend, but I really/want desire my husband. Pray for me, as I have for you...
Mindblank
PS - I have a D17, as well. God help us! (As well as two boys, 11 and 9, but they're nice right now!)
PSS - Just bought "The Love Dare" today! Love it!
PSSS - Every bible verse I've found on these forums I've saved in my Blackberry. I pray over them anytime I'm sitting and waiting for kids to finish with activities, etc... LOVE THEM!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.