Nas, if he tries to start R talks about finance and planning; just tell him that you need time to process what's going on. You'll get back to him in due time.
I'm happy that you were able to seek out support. I read the post about his emails right after you posted them; but was unavailable to respond. I had my own sitch going on at the same time. But you did good. God is wonderful and he's helping many of us right now.
