Hi Nasmat, I have been thinking about this all day. Something from your first post keeps comming into my mind.
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He comes from a family...filled with Marines, law enforcement officers and federal employees....he is conservative... he came from a Catholic family and believed in being a good Catholic
This QLC (if that is what it is), may have as much to do with him as it does with anything that you may have done.
This is what I mean. He grew up a good Catholic boy, lots of rules and order (Marines, police). Honor and respect and following expectations of others. Very conservative values ..presumably shared by many of those around him. He worked hard to uphold rules, expectations, and be the way he was "supposed" to be. That means many things were off limits.
Now his world is in a transition. He is searching. Unfortunately, in the wrong places, but in those off limits places where he never allowed himself.
All the while rejecting his very base. As you and I know, there is only one place he will find fulfillment and peace. That just isn't where he is looking right now. Hopefully he will find his way.
