The long story of my WAH - need guidance and hope.

[nw626]

Nas
I know it hurts and it will hurt more before it gets better.
Don't be scared. You are a strong woman and you know it.
Honestly, you can't stop him. He has already made up his mind to move out. It is just a matter of time. The more you push, the more he will pull.
I think you need to start detaching more quickly.
Let him go, give him the space and time that he needs. Let him miss you and see what a great gal that he is leaving. Time is on your side, but you have to be patient.
When he comes and pack his stuff, act you are OK. Fake it if you need to. You have to show him you will be fine with or without him. No R talk at all.....

I know you can do this.

NW626