I have read this book but my emotions were running too high to play nice and friendly ... I really think the detaching and GAl, moving on methods work best ....
but my emotions have calm down I don't feel so vulerable and might be able to stop all the "talks" and just "be" and show a happier me... I really feel good and have realized that nothing that I say is going to matter... yes he'll show tears one day and then cold the next time we talk..
Let me know what you plan on doing with Surviving an Affair and how you are going to implement...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08