Well, All I can say ((Julia))) is well done!!!! Sounds like you held yourself together beautifully!! You were strong, confident, helpful and friendly.
Your description of your H sounds much like mine. Forever worried that I'm angry at him and totally afraid of me. Maybe they wouldn't feel so horrible, if we would have done the same ..... found OM & riddled ourselves with guilt & bad decisions. So then, we would be on the same playing field - so to speak.
Hope you have a good day or night!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)