Once I just wanted someone to take over all the responsibilities for me. The trash needs to be set out on the curb, baths need to be taken, food needs to be fixed, and now h is worrying about some guy that he has only worked with since Aug.

I maintained my composure with h, but look we have kids that need to be taken care of. We can't be wasting our time worrying about some coworker on an action plan and allowing it to affect our everyday life.

I am glad my h is showing compassion, but let's put this in perspective.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"