recent update. My H called about a ride for our D15. I tried to backpedal some of the damage I did today.

I said I am not going to apologize to you because this has been rough on our whole family.

I told H yes I want to save my M. I do not want a D. But I also need to start not being a victim and do what is right for me and D15 and if that meant going back East and moving back with my mother and starting a new life that is what I will have to do. Then I said I need to hang up.

tomorrow should I start the tough love approach and go dark?

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09