W came by to pick up the kids. I had them all ready and had the bag she's been asking for. W and I exchaned "hi" and she was gone in 5 min. I didn't let her hang around. She was a grouch anyway. Can't encourage bad behavior.
W sent text to 'please call her about day care' (wow said please... Something is working). I knew this was going to be a partial trap to talk about D. I took 30 min to focus then called.
W gave me the sitter basics but no details or opinion of sitter. Didn't say if she liked it or not. She is very opinionated so her not offering her opinion was different. W then asked, "on days the sitter calls off, can you watch the kids"? I just responded, "I don't know". W said the sane question again. I responded the same answer. I could feel her anger. How do I know if I can watch the kids when the sitter wakes up and decides she doesn't want kids around!?
W then goes into D talk. Says we can't sign until Jan (good news). Then says I can go in and sign on my own but she is setting her own appt (more good news). This means I can go in and when I feel like it. I will call my L and make sure no traps are set. W was discouraged by conversation and said by then quickly hung up.
I now have time. One goal accomplished!
Now I can work on myslef for a while. Reading 'the law of attraction' right now to learn new perspective on how to deal w/ W's negative energy and help my positive energy. Kind of hokey right now but I get the idea.
The next yime my W calls asking for something I am going to let her know I have some of her stuff packed up for her to take. I was letting her store some stuff but I've decided I need the space for other stuff. No sense in having extra clutter. I love my W and am not trying to be a jerk. I need the extra space to finish the house which is high on the goals list.
