For all my friends here who does not know about this book. It's called, 'Surviving an Affair' by Williard F Harley, Jr and Jennifer Harley Chalmers. I am reading this and it really helps with the whirlwind that our spouses are creating at the moment. It perfectly describes what is happening with the dynamics of our relationship with our spouses and what to expect in the coming months. It also outlines plans on how to get over this difficult period when your spouse is having a full-on A and how to deal with it. It is helping me adjust my expectations and have a more long-term view of my fight for my M. It works well with DB principles and I would recommend it to anyone.
Last edited by PositivelyMommy; 12/09/0812:16 AM.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
