t, Reread your last post and answer the question...in or out and please leave out the buts! I seriously doubt that you will see any movement on her part if you continue to act the way you have described here. Don't get me wrong T, I feel for you but I get the sense that you are approaching this all wrong. I would suggest that if you have been on board for a year, one of two things is happening. She is so far gone that NOTHING can bring her back OR you have not been doing a good enough job. After one year it should not be too difficult to get your XW to at least stop treating you like crap.
