mC--Just checking in. Take what Mike posted here to heart. Forgiving yourself is the first step, finding the good in your W helps to forgive her and also makes it easier for you to overlook the horrible stuff she is doing to you. You are doing great, be proud of yourself. Nice work on talking to sologirl20something in the bar you sly dog! Keep the close ties with W's family, loving them also helps you to overlook what W is doing. Going to try and go walk before the sunsets!

LE

M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.