Hi essie.. Hmm. I'm sorry your H seems to have blown cold again.. did I have any point in my last post, or not.. )like Kalnis H.. did yuou read that just now?).. do you think he got discouraged by your original muted response when he wanted you back. could that have made him lose confidence in your R? make him feel like it was too much trouble to put it back together? That he might fail? Like too much damage had been done?
I agree you should talk to him, but not over the phone.. you need to do it face to face and be able to see his eyes and facial expression IMHO. Can you get him to meet with you?
Also, is there a chance he could be seeing someone, could you find out?
Seems like in your post you are weighing up a lot of possibles but you just dont know.. and seeing as you two have been dating (?) and sleeping togetehr again (??).. perhaps you are in a posotion to have an R talk with him and then you dont have to guess or assume what he is thinking...
You sound like you are coping with it, but you did say in an earlier post that maybe you were holding back (?) becuase of fear of being rejected by him again??
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread