I just don't know. He obviously feels like he's become so detached. He wants to know he's still wanted and needed. Do you involve him with the boys? Does he feel he can interact with the three of you? Or does he feel, rightly or wrongly, that he is somehow shut-out?
And body-part enlargement? There on the Internet in front of you? Given his history?
Consciously or unconsciously, I think he's trying to get a reaction out of you. If he's feeling so insecure that he's considering increasing his "manhood", that speaks to the degree he feels uncertain.
Need to think on this some more, but if he's still talking this way you can be sure he hasn't given up, not yet. I just don't think he honestly realizes what the results will be for this kind of provoking you. He really needs to wake up.
