Hope - I have been here....last week was busy at work getting back from Oklahoma trip.
Things are good. I bought D16 a dog on Friday as her xmas gift that she has so desperately wanted. She was estatic! I brought him home Friday after work as a surprise and she flipped! I was so lucky to find him at the pound. He is a full breed Golden Retriever and he is only a year old. He is so cute! She named him Leo. It has been a blast this weekend.
As for H, he got his cell phone turned back on. Sent D16 a text but she just ignored it. He sent me a text Saturday asking if I have done my xmas shopping. I told him I had only bought the dog. He sends back that he won't be able to buy D16 anything or anyone else since he has no money. I told him "sorry to hear that" and did not engage. I ask him what his son wants for xmas and he said his son didn't know what he wanted then he adds that he didn't even have money to eat the whole weekend and that he had never been in this kind of situation before and that it was pretty scary. I didn't even engage in that either. I just told him I was sorry to hear that and that I was in no better situation either. It's almost like he wanted me to feel sorry and try to fix it for him. Well he got himself into that situation now its time for him to get himself out or why doesn't he get his 21 yr old GF to fix it for him right? I mean what else does he want? It's just so frustrating....
I can't do anything with the D papers. I don't have the money to record the response (it would cost me like $500). It's all about extending it to let time heal everything right? Maybe this is a sign to have patience.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.