I Challenged Him to Decide...

[optimistwife]

Wow- what a difference a week makes! I am trying to be very controlled about my thoughts be cause it does seem almost too good to be true. Since my proclamation of feelings last week it seems like there has been a massive turn around.

H has started to say I love you again. Multiple times- and I am starting to say it back... without flinching...

H put on ring this weekend- I haven't seen it in months- he slipped it on briefly a month or two ago for a day while visiting.

He said he'd been looking at houses online in some of the places he is interviewing and they are affordable...

We spent the weekend together- cuddling, ML, made cookies.

This has to be stage 3! So far there has been no talk about what led up to our separation, and how exactly to fix it. But we are finally making plans to be together in the future. He is saying nice things about me, commenting on my looks, saying he is happy he married me. What a change from 6 months ago.

I am going to keep steady because I know that this could backslide, and I need to keep doing what I have been working on, and not slip into old habits.

I need to schedule a session with Jody! I am so glad I signed up for all of them!