I would have been fine with the extra night as long as I knew in advance. I mean stuff does happen.
kat
Exactly! Their grandma was in town and they see her prob. about every 5 years so if he had called or emailed (so I wouldn't worry) I would have been fine. But he does whatever he wants and doesn't give me the opportunity to agree or disagree, although I would have agreed for sure. Just like I would want him to do the same for me. With a normal person I would just ask him to email or call me when he wants to keep the kids an extra night, I mean a really normal person would prob. already know that! But I honestly am thinking if I let him know it bothered me and kept me up he would probably do that intentionally in the future. He's not normal (or at least I hope most normal people don't act like him.) I try to never let him know something bothers me (like the whistle and flute toy that I let him know were annoying and then he gives the kids new whistle & flute toys every week!!! Karen
