W got in touch with her L and it should all be over before the end of the year. They were concerned that my 401K has lost money and now W won't get as much $ as she expected, I just told her take out a set $ amount, that way she will get what she wants out of this D which is $
Things will change after I sign, changing the locks on the doors, W no longer welcome in my house, she can sit outside in her car and wait until the kids are ready for school or whenever she decides to pick the kids up.
I'm conflicted; I want to ask W what 2 weekends she wants the kids each month (this will cut into her party time) but it will allow me some free time to get stuff done or go out every now and then or do I just hire a babysitter and let her take them when she wants ?? (once every month)
Correction W going to take kids overnight Saturday 12/14 and drop them off Sunday morning, that should be it for the month
Merry Christmas everyone
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Amount of time WAM spent with kids so far this month = 0.20
