Just had the health insurance meeting. We now have a large deductible that has to be met. I emailed her and said I will be responsible for the insurance premium, however, until the deductible is met she will have to pay for her prescritions and any medical outside of preventative or wellness care. Which I think is reasonable. Before we had co=pays for all of this, that no longer exists. So if she has $100 worth of prescriptions each month, she will have to pay the $100 a motnth until the deductible is satisfied.
I also told her I have to put in the beneficiaries for my insurance. Law requires that if it is not the spouse, then she has to sign a document and have it notarized. I need this done by Wednesday. I will change the beneficiaries to my kids. again, I do not think this is an unreasonable request.