Thanks Gypsy. . . She and I both read "Not Just Friends" . . . And we do talk openly about everything . . . in the end she says that she is "emotionally driven" and cannot help herself, feeling for him as she does, even though it doesn't make sense based on what she might lose. . . so she wants "us" to work out. She is playing both sides.

I'll have to re-read GAL section because I don't know what I need or can do to be a better person. What I need / desire most is a stable future.